Hi Friends,
I’ve been itching to write and always- forever putting my alone time on the back burner but Hubby is out with Micah right now, and the house is decent so I can finally sit down to give a decent post here.
I haven’t shared anything in forever but I have had this post on my mind for about that amount of time. ^_^ Now seems like the right time to share about our home school journey and choices as so many loved ones are considering the option of homeschooling during the Covid-19 Pandemic.
Six years ago I was hoping and praying, longing and striving to have a baby of my own. It’s not a secret among our friends and family and this sweet lil’ online community that I have had fertility issues and quite a journey into motherhood. I was so preoccupied with getting pregnant that I hadn’t given much thought to how we would raise our child when that day came.
When finally we brought my son home from the Birthing Center all the preparations I had made for his homecoming became futile. Everything turned inward and instinct took over. As he approached his first birthday I finally had the mental space to think about his near future and I started researching education styles and methods. My husband also had some developing opinions about our conventional options and after a process we both felt strongly that we didn’t want to ‘send’ him to school. We also saw all of the important skills he was learning as a baby and what a great job we were doing teaching him those things. Surely we could give him a basic primary education.
Over the next two years I read up on different methods, joined social media groups, and did my best to meet home school families who were in the thick of it. I remember feeling really unsure of what it would look like to home school and wanting someone to paint a picture for me so I could “plan” for our future.
When my son turned three years old I started to do some preschool activities with him like learning the alphabet and numbers, animals, colours, sensory activities, gross and fine motor exercises and more. (thank you pinterest) I wanted to cultivate a habit of teaching him through play. We had copious play dates with other SAHM’s and their little ones and friends on MAT leave, where he practised his social skills. I could see that he was developing a beautiful character. The picture started to come into focus and it was far from perfect but really beautiful.
I attended a few home school conferences which were amazing in sparking my imagination. The RVHEA conference and then the Meeting Charlotte Mason mini conference did a wonder in getting me ready for the coming years education and setting me on course as a mother. The picture was gaining clarity. I truly believe that education is so much more then knowledge transfer, text books, lectures and sitting at a desk. I grew up in the public school system and did okay, but there was a lack of depth that I’m still coming to terms with. I want to give him more depth of thinking and less “twaddle”. More on that another time.
When he turned four years old and all of his friends were heading off to their first year of JK in the public and Catholic school systems. The biggest change was in seeking out an intentional home school community. We joined a large Co-op and Forest School where we met families committed to homeschooling for the long run. My son met new friends and really enjoyed the classes and mother-teachers as well as being free to explore the Earth around him. I loved seeing him practice his social skills that we practice at home. Looking back I think these activities have had a huge impact on my journey and shaping my outlook on home education. I’m really going to miss seeing this community and connecting on a regular basis due to the pandemic restrictions.
I’m finding many of our normally non-home school friends are really trying to figure out how to navigate their choices to send their kids to school or keep them home during the pandemic. Many have been seeking advice and support as they plan to keep their kids home for the year. We are kind of figuring this out as we go right now too. It’s a lot of pressure, but also a great opportunity to pass forward the blessing I’ve been given. If you are planning to keep your kids home through the pandemic or beyond I would love to hear from you and do what I can to support you. Friends who are sending the kids to school, I’m here for you too. You already know that. 😉
I really feel like I have only hardly scratched the surface of the home schooling conversation. As September approaches I have planned in some space “for myself.” I’m hoping that at least once or twice I can update this blog over the next month. It would be a record! Your likes and comments are motivating to me so please keep them coming!
One last thing. As September approaches I know I need to be on my game as I’ll be keeping the house running and teaching Micah and his buddies. Two things I have chosen to do as the busy days approach.
#1 I’m getting up a bit earlier to spend time reading and praying to start my day right. It is not easy!
#2 I’ve been watching a beautiful free online home school conference. It’s only free for a limited time but I highly recommend that if you are a parent (home or public school) that you at least play it in the back ground while washing the dishes or folding laundry. It’s all about the deeper side of our Children’s education and I really believe it’s worth your attention. Awaking wonder at Home with Sally Clarkson
“Train up a child in the way they should go and when they are old they will not stray from it.”
Peace and blessings, loved ones!